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Online dating blunders

Have you blown your chance at getting to know this person better?

It could be that appearing unsure makes the writer seem more vulnerable and less threatening. But either way: men should be careful not to let the appearance of vulnerability become the appearance of sweaty desperation: , 23%)!

Mentioning your religion helps you, but, paradoxically, it helps you most if you have no religion.

No one at Ok Cupid read any actual user messages to compile this post.

Besides, when you tell a woman she’s beautiful, chances are you’re not.

Maybe they set a more casual tone that people prefer, though I have to say, You had me at ‘what’s up’ doesn’t quite have the same ring to it.

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The result: a set of rules for what you should and shouldn’t say when introducing yourself. Let’s go: Netspeak, bad grammar, and bad spelling are huge turn-offs.