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The problem is our minds trick us into believing there is some sort of payoff to this type of thinking.

It’s like the universe is trying to tell you something, or to teach you a lesson, or […] Read more By Sarah Elizabeth Richards You want to look your best when you’re dating new people. In your head, you just have to buckle down on your calorie count for a few weeks or months, and you’ll look great in your tightest jeans or fitted leather […] Read more Emily Nunn’s new book The Comfort Food Diaries: My Quest for the Perfect Dish to Mend a Broken Heart is a memoir about a woman in the midst of grief.

In the wake of her brother’s death, her fiancé breaks up with her and her life falls apart. First, she moves […] Read more Dating can be exciting, exhilarating, and, naturally, nerve-wracking!

No amount of plotting or analyzing will change whether you and someone else are compatible. The dating process is more of a discovery process to find out if it’s there.

So you enter into the relationship as your best self and then one of two things happens: it works out, or it doesn’t.

The article sparked an avalanche of e-mails and comments from women who were feeling panicked over the state of their relationship. You can see the other person for who he is and you can give yourself to him freely – no strategy, no game-playing, no manipulation. You can just be and there is no greater feeling than that. How do we stop our minds from spinning into overdrive, sending out waves of unpleasant thoughts and alarm bells? It causes problems within the relationship, and more importantly, it takes a huge toll on your sense of self and self-esteem.

Most understood the point I was making in the article, but rather than relaxing and just going with the flow, they wanted to know: “How can I fix it if I was stressing too much? When you care too much, you inevitably become attached to a certain outcome.

You’re here, I know, because you’re holding onto hope by a tiny little thread.

I get it—it seems like an impossibility that you will meet the right person, someone […] Read more It all started when an eharmony engineer named Greg Petroski thought to himself, wouldn’t it be cool if there was an eharmony skill for Amazon Alexa, where you could check out your matches, listen to messages, and get updated without lifting a finger?

These addictions are experienced by the entire breadth of society, from the […] Read more Complacency is a continuous struggle that we all have to fight.

~ Jack Nicklaus You know how you sometimes (perhaps frequently) have that experience of something bumping up against you repeatedly and you feel the nudge to listen.

QUIZ: Are You Accidentally Sabotaging Your Relationship? See a relationship for what it is Let’s talk about what a relationship is and isn’t. A relationship isn’t a measure of your worth or worthiness in this world.